To understand... To know... & To trust...

In any relationship... Friendship or Love. You will get through this phase.
A phase I called, Improvement phase.

When you fell in love, you can't think wisely. All you can think is... you want that person badly. Afraid of losing that person. Day dreaming, can't leave him out of side... Get jealous easily and then u may cry because u think you can't have him. True isn't it? Love hurt when the person you love does not love you in return or doesn't tell you how he or she felt. Then, you start to think that you cannot have them. Love is blind but the blindness make your heart skip a beat and music fills the air.

But it's different when you are in the relationship you want to. You start to think wisely and make a room for improvement... "To understand, to know, and to trust..."

This is important phase to strengthen and sustain your relationship. You must always try to understand your friend. Do not just simple make them do everything in your way. In fact, you must follow theirs too. In this process you'll get to know them well. So, when you know them, you will tend to take care of that person. Your action will always speak louder than your word. Love can be felt without you saying a word. This is because you understand and know them better. Then you put your trust on them. You trust them in every way because you love them...

The stage is complete. You are the true love that one can never let go. Be wise and sensible.
But remember to improvise so that your relationship will not be lame... Be a cheerleader and a player at the same time. :)